• Personal Experience

    Jonathan’s Story – Part 1 : Meeting a Birth Mom for the First Time

    I’m not sure which day I officially became a mom.  Was it the day Jonathan was born?  Was it the day his birth mom signed the adoption papers? Or was it the day Jeron and I brought our precious baby boy home? Which ever one it is, there was a long road that led up to that day.  I had some health problems that resulted in a surgery that I almost didn’t survive, we went through a year of trying to get pregnant the “normal” way, followed by a year of infertility tests.  But the story of how we became Jonathan’s parents begins with a phone call from the doctor,…

  • Personal Experience

    Why I Named my Blog The Whispering Leaf

    I often get asked why I named a blog about adoption The Whispering Leaf.  So today I thought I would share some of my deepest feeling about adoption, and why I felt the name The Whispering Leaf was so perfect. But first let me ask you some questions. “Do you feel the need to whisper when talking about adoption?” and if so, “Why?” For us, it all began with the adoption of our first son, Jonathan.  The minute people learned that we had adopted a baby, they wanted to share how adoption had touched their life.  Some of these people I had known for a long time, while others were…