• Adoption

    Everything You Need to Know About “Gotcha Day”

    “Gotcha” is a word I have never liked for a few simple reasons – I don’t like the way it sounds coming out of my mouth AND I don’t like the way my mouth has to move in order to say it! The more I hear it or say it, the worse it gets.  Have any of you ever had a word like that?  I used to have a similar reaction to the word “scrumptious.”  My Grandma always used the word “scrumptious” to describe every meal.. and it drove me crazy!  Now that she has passed on, I don’t mind hearing it, because it makes me think of her.  But…

  • Adoption

    Pros and Cons of Open Adoption

    If you are considering adoption, one of the first things that you will need to start thinking about is if you would like an open or a closed adoption.  For those of you who are unfamiliar with the concept of an open vs. closed adoption, let me explain. In an open adoption, the adoptive parents and the birth parents have traded personal information and have the option of contacting one another.  There are various degrees of openness.  Emails, pictures, social media, texting, calling, and visits can all be factors that are included in openness.  The birth and adoptive parents usually meet before the birth/placement of the baby. In a closed…